Is 7th grade hard?

at first, yes, it is challenging. it is a big step from 6th grade, and a lot more is expected from you. but after the first couple of months, it gets easier. and about the bat/bar mitzvahs, they aren't every weekend. there are about 8-10 in one year. and most don't start until January or later anyway, and by then you'll be a pro at handling the work and going to parties.